so... turns out that 40% of single, sexually active new yorkers didn't wear a condom last time they did the deed.  ew.  what happened to "no glove, no love"?  and for real people, condoms AND lube can be found free of charge in lots of places in NYC.  there are no excuses!  again, i must say... EW.  anyways.  i found a website that had an IM conversation between two female new yorkers on the subject.  check it... and laugh.  it's funny.  those women are bold and outspoken.  loves it.